04 July 2004

Why I am like I am

I am Melancholy Choleric

The Scores-

Overall-
Melancholy:28
Phlegmatic:4
Sanguine:2
Choleric:5
Strengths-
Melancholy:14
Phlegmatic:2
Sanguine:2
Choleric:2
Weakneses-
Melancholy:14
Phlegmatic:2
Sanguine:0
Choleric:3

The Melancholy in me...

The Introvert | The Thinker | The Pessimist

The Melancholy's Emotions-
Good:Deep and thoughtfully
Analytical
Serious and purposeful
Genius prone
Talented and creative
Artistic or musical
Philosophical and poetic
appreciative of beauty
Sensitive to others
Self-sacrificing
Conscientious
Idealistic
And bad:Remembers the negatives
Moody and depressed
Enjoys being hurt
Has false humility
Off in another world
Low self-image
Has selective hearing
Self-centered
Too introspective
Guilt feelings
Persecution complex
Tends to hypochondria

The Melancholy As A Parent-
Good:Sets high standards
Wants everything done right
Keeps home in good order
Picks up after children
Sacrifices own will for others
Encourages scholarship and talent
And bad:Puts goals beyond reach
May discourage children
May be too meticulous
Becomes martyr
Sulks over disagreements
Puts guilt upon children

The Melancholy At Work-
Good:Schedule oriented
Perfectionist, high standards
Detail conscious
Persistent and thorough
Orderly and organized
Neat and tidy
Economical
Sees the problems
Finds creative solutions
Needs to finish what he starts
Likes charts, graphs, figures, lists
And bad:Not people oriented
depressed over imperfections
Chooses difficult work
Hesitant to start projects
Spends to much time planning
Prefers analysis to work
Self-deprecating
Hard to please
Standards often to high
Deep need for approval

The Melancholy As a Friend-
Good:Makes friends cautiously
Content to stay in background
Avoids causing attention
Faithful and devoted
Will listen to complaints
Can solve other's problems
Deep concern for other people
Moved to tears with compassion
Seeks ideal mate
And bad:Lives through others
Insecure socially
Withdrawn and remote
critical of others
Holds back affections
Dislikes those in opposition
Suspicious of people
Antagonistic and vengeful
Unforgiving
Full of contradictions
Skeptical of compliments

And the Choleric side of me...

The Extrovert | The Doer | The Optimist

The Choleric's Emotions-
Good:Born leader
Dynamic and active
Compulsive need for change
Must correct wrongs
Strong-willed and decisive
Unemotional
Not easily discouraged
Independent and self sufficient
Exudes confidence
Can run anything
And bad:Bossy
Impatient
Quick-tempered
Can't Relax
Too impetuous
Enjoys controversy and arguments
Won't give up when loosing
Comes on too strong
Inflexible
Is not complimentary
Dislikes tears and emotions
Is unsympathetic

The Choleric As A Parent-
Good:Exerts sound leadership
Establishes Goals
Motivates family to action
Knows the right answer
Organizes household
And bad:Tends to over dominate
Too busy for family
Gives answers too quickly
Impatient with poor performance
Won't let children relax
May send them into depression

The Choleric At Work-
Good:Goal oriented
Sees the whole picture
Organizes well
Seeks practical solutions
Moves quickly to action
Delegates work
Insists on production
Makes the goal
Stimulates activity
Thrives on opposition
And bad:Little tolerance for mistakes
Doesn't analyze details
Bored by trivia
May make rash decisions
May be rude or tactless
Manipulates people
Demanding of others
End justifies the means
Work may become his god
Demands loyalty in the ranks

The Choleric As a Friend-
Good:Has little need for friends
Will work for group activity
Will lead and organize
Is usually right
Excels in emergencies
And bad:Tends to use people
Dominates others
Knows everything
Decides for others
Can do everything better
Is to independent
Possessive of friends and mate
Can't say, "I'm Sorry"
May be right, but unpopular


**Can they put me in more of a box? Sigh, as though one can never change...

Oh well, I suppose some of these traits do explain parts of me to some degree. So tehre you have it. Take what you think is valuable. Throw out what you think isn't. That really is all there is to it. I just thought I would share.

Just so you might be able to understand a little bit better...

-RK

2 Thought(s):

Blogger Darnell Clayton thought...

I see. That is cool to hear. You are Melancholy Choleric (I think I spelled that right). I am Sanguine Choleric...although I think I am even on both.

Here are my results:

Your scores are below
Overall:
Melancholy:8
Phlegmatic:7
Sanguine:13
Choleric:12

Strengths:
Melancholy:5
Phlegmatic:4
Sanguine:6
Choleric:5

Weakneses:
Melancholy:3
Phlegmatic:3
Sanguine:7
Choleric:7


There you go! Selah!

4:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous thought...

Wow, melancholy, eh? Totally fits you. You're the second malencholic I know of.

I'm a phlegmatic choleric, go figure.

7:44 PM  

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